Sex Toys And Your Bedroom |
In any relationship there are a few tricky subjects. Do you love me? Who was that guy you were hanging out with last night? Where do you see this relationship heading? And the old classic how would you feel if I used a cock ring?
Addressing the issue of whether or not your other half would respond well to sex toys is a tricky subject to say the least. However if you're finding that your sex life could use a bit of reinvigorating, or if you just want to try something new that could be fun for both of you, it's a shame not to raise the issue at all. So how do you go about introducing sex toys into the bedroom?
One technique tried by many a man is to spring it on the girl as a surprise. Either by just whacking out a condom or vibrator one evening during foreplay and scaring the bejesus out of her, or by buying it as a vibrating surprise gift and embarrassing her something rotten. Both of these scenarios has the possibility to go very much tits up and is a risky business at best.
A far better technique to use, that will lead to far less embarrassment is one of ¡¥incremental increases'. This is a psychological phenomenon introduced by Milgram in his famous ¡¥obedience study' where he learned that people are far more likely to go along with an idea if it's introduced to them slowly.
So rather than randomly whipping out the anal beads, try suggesting something more mild to begin with. For example you can start with oils ¡V for a massage and maybe an oily hand job. Then you could move up to the various creams and pastes designed to make fingering her feel a million times better as they warm up or give off a tangy minty sensation. That's not a big step and she'd likely be okay with it. From here, once she's warmed up to the idea (literally perhaps) you can suggest something a bit kinkier such as a vibrator. And once she's used to a vibrator... well a dildo isn't far off at all.
What you need to explain to her is that all these things are signs that you're a good boyfriend. Very few sex toys are designed specifically towards improving the sexual experience for the man (unless you like having beads up your ass...) and are all far more likely to make him feel inadequate. If she's against the idea then she's missed an opportunity to heighten her sexual experience. Well done for trying.
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